From here on out, I will use the abbreviation "S.O." for Significant Other, because I'm retarded.
As I've found in my experience with Karl, both of us having an S.O. (No, wait. That's too retarded. Let's go back to girlfriend). With both of us having a girlfriend, our hanging out groups have easily increased from two to four.
I realize now that I have not had a stable group of at least four for hanging out for well over two years. even longer for one that I felt inherently a part of.
But I digress into faggotry.
Now, I have to say, Russ, Karl and I are really quite tight, but our female situations have been bizarre. Karl was never a factor in Russ's, nor vice versa. I have disliked two of three of Karl's, and he was rather antagonistic (with good reason) to one of mine. And excepting his current one, I've always gotten along with Russ's. Now, do I mean to imply that I'm perfect in these matters?
Yes.
Currently, however, it seems like a medium of happy has been reached on each. Russ, of course, is in the opening shots of his relationship, so he has yet to be frustrated. I, for the first time, am not going out with someone immensely frustrating, nay, even psychotic! Karl, on the other hand, is progressing through his with a minimum of difficulty.
In fact, I think that all three of us have it nailed down. I've yet to see Russ's figurative phallic performance; however, Karl seems to have achieved his goals relatively stress-free, now exiting the school year, and I have managed to keep mine extremely happy, remaining so myself.
I really think you can divide us up by our personality. Karl is, of course, more instantly likable, which makes his match, with another instantly likable person, all the more ideal. Ironically, I've gotten to know them both significantly enough to despise them, only cementing mutual love. Russ is fucking some book geek. Because he's a fag. I don't feel I'm qualified to make a self-judgement alongside these other ones, because it would be more accurate and despicable sounding, but we do get along very well, as equals.
In fact, I think each of us has found a certain degree of success. Though Karl's is on a timer, he should have an excellent summer excepting. Russ's is new, but they seem a fairly compatible match - Russian, sans sass (maybe? I don't fucking know. Ask your father). And I don't see any looming conflict to end mine. What does this mean? What's the conclusion?